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So Kraven, you want to tell us where to go on a first date? I guess this is going to be the first “Fight it or leave it”!
There are so many great places for a first date, but Kraven is wrong on a few things, first of all, don’t go on a date at all. Dates create the uncomfortable silence that you all know when you have been meeting that woman of your dreams and decided to meet her and she said yes. Now you sit somewhere and don’t know what to talk about… that’s bad.
It’s a nice idea to go Ice Skating, that’s fun. Stick to something like that, but a musical? Come on, forced to each other for a few hours. Show that you are fun to hang around with, not that you are a geek right away.

That’s best achieved with some fun activities, sports are great, meeting your friends is a good way to show social status and display value. Going grocery shopping is practical and can be even more fun. It’s probably something a woman has never been asked to do.

Here are the steps for a first great get together

• Meet her at a place you already wanted to go to and let her join you.
• If she says no to the first time you ask her out and wants to meet at another time say no! Say you have an appointment and find another time. You are the decision maker and your time is valuable.
• Run if she is boring and no fun to hang around with.
• Don’t wuss out. If you are going on a date be yourself. That means talking about stuff you are interested in and not kissing up to the woman of your dreams. Great looking women always receive compliments, they look for someone who knows better than that and is a great time to hang around with. Sure you can give a compliment, but it should be a reverse one with a little twist. Funny & Charming.
• Change sides, pretend the woman is after you and that she is too fast. Slow it down, and remind her that you are not easy to get, but she could make a great friend if nothing else. Make her wonder what you are up to.

And now to the places! There is so much more than an ordinary café or a dinner.

For a first date, stay away from seducing places. Try to plan a date where you can go from place to place, which would count as an individual date each time you change place and stay together. You can always leave without her in case she is scray or boring.
The idea behind multiple events is that you can build a better connection and built up tension and attraction if you know how to spark the fire.

• A great series of events is going for a walk in the park, followed by meeting your friends to play frisbee and then later on going to your place to take a shower and hit a café or bar afterwards for some great conversation.
• Or you can go grocery shopping, buy some fine foods, get some icecream & glam mags to chill in the sun somewhere having a small picnic and then cooking something at your place later on.

There are so many things you can do that are actually fun and will lead to great interactions with the woman of your dreams.

Don’t be one of those soppy whimps that takes the girl of your dreams out on a date that she is expecting! Make her feel those feelings she never had before, because you are attractive, know how to have fun and show that you are social enough to have friends that are fun to hang around with.

Oh no, not another crappy dating blog wannabe post”

No worries, this won’t end up in me telling you folks how to live or plan your (existing or non-existing) lovelife(s). Instead, I wanna give you some advice on what you could do in certain situations. As for this post I will take an approach on the first date issue of where to invite your newly girlfriend in the making.

To narrow the locations down you should know a few things about girls/woman regarding their preferences if it comes to meeting-places for a first date:

• They hate intimate places (so your apartment will be off the list)

• Weird dark places equals #1 (parking lots are a def. no go…for reference go watch the movie “P2″)

• Sport events are only accepted if the girl specifically told you she likes it (so in 98% of all cases, that’s a no)

• Any place where she feels immoderate is also off-list (your favourite bar or any place where you know a lot of people while she doesn’t)

So, after ruling out most of the fun places to go, there are of course the usual suspects like bistros, cafes, restaurants (NOT Starbucks!) and henceforth. So in order to surprise her with a more original idea of a first date invitation, here is a list of three places u can try next time:

• Ice-Skating hall (Lots of people/couples, friendly atmosphere, and even if neither of you is any good in ice-skating, you will have quite some fun)

• Musicals (You probably want to make sure she’s into such stuff, but if that’s the case, then u got yourself a nice romantic location. In addition you also won’t have to say much since the actors will do most of that job, so you can’t fu**up that badly. Another plus would be the fact, that after the Show, you already have a topic to talk about, so no weird silences)

• Planetarium (Dark room, lots of projected stars on the sky and definitely one of the most original ideas for a date)

To sum it up, try to be different without appearing too weird, girls sure like unusual places where they still feel comfortable.

I would like to see some comments of you for this post, may it be positive or negative feedback. It would surely be cool if you would post any experience of yours with one of the locations I posted.